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Friday, May 28, 2010

History of the Book - where I try not to bore you into insensibility

Disclaimer: This post came out longer than I intended but it is hard to condense over 2000 years of book history. Read at your own peril.

The boy and I were invited to visit the rare books library at the University of Texas Medical Center (UTMB) in Galveston, TX. It turned out to be an awesome trip. We toured the library, held some 500+ year old books, viewed and held some 160 year old surgery kits (The Boy, not me), and saw archival materials like microscopes, coffins and surgery tables (covered in velvet don't ya know). I also contributed in a Digital Ethnography course (Not sure how much help I was considering the PhD students were sharp as tacks).

To truly appreciate the ultimate in technology (the written word in book form). One needs to know a little history of the book. If you don't mind I'll pass on a little of my book learn'in. Second disclaimer: I'm not an expert. I'm only a librarian with 4 rare books courses and my own research to go on. If I've totally screwed this up I'm sorry. I'm just regurgitating information that I learned at school. Take it for what it's worth.



The earliest form of a book. The cuneiform* tablet is the start of the pen to paper movement. The library that the Boy and I went to didn't have any cuneiform tablets. In library school I had the pleasure to take several rare book courses and was able to view and handle a cuneiform tablet. Let me tell you, when you hold one in your hand the sense of history is awe inspiring.




The next phase of book production is the papyrus scroll*. More handy than a chunk of rock but not near as much fun if you want to beat some sense into someone. This form wasn't used for as long as later forms. Why? Because outside of the Euphrates valley papyrus tended to dry out and break apart. That could be bad if you were making contracts with enemies.
We didn't see any of these on Tuesday but I've seen them before.



Ahh...now we get to what we think of as a book. This is a very old codex.* Codex were the first books in the form that we know them as today. From what I remember, from my rare books courses, is that early Roman Christians found themselves getting caught carrying around scrolls of scripture. Getting caught was not a good thing. It usually meant spending some quality (if not quantity) time in the forum fending off lions or bears. The outcomes were usually not great for the Christians. Their solution was to put their scriptures into a form that could be carried in the deep pockets of their toga. I can imagine that it ruined the fall of the toga but if it was a choice between being fashionable or some lion's feast I think I'd be unfashionable. What about you?



6 or 7 hundred years later some monk spent a goodly amount of time writing out the text on this page*. When he was done he would pass it off to his buddy at the next desk who would draw and color the illumination. Another monk would sew all the pages together in book form. Yet, another monk would make the boards (literally wooden boards) to use as covers. And, that all happened after another monk made the paper and yet another blocked out where everthing on each page went. Book making was not for the faint of heart. Now, you know where Henry Ford got the idea for making cars on an assembly line. (I really don't know that for a fact but it sounds vaguely plausible.)



An original Gutenberg Bible*. Gutenberg developed movable type in about 1450. He wasn't the first, he just had better PR. The Chinese were way ahead of him but since they were isolated off in the East Gutenberg had the advantage.
Check out the hand colored illumination. Book printers wanted to emulate the work of the monk's illumination.
Why?
Because that is what people were use to.
Printers hated to disappoint them.



This lovely quatro 1526 Hippocra is a perfect example of a handpress movable type book. Ignore my hand, look at those wonderful woodcut drawings.


Early 17th century handpress book. Look at the fantastic woodcut illustrations. That, my friends, is perfection in a book.
What's it worth?
Try $750,000.00.
It was lots of fun thumbing through a book worth about what I'll make in 10 years. The Boy was impressed.

A hundred years or so later and the only advancement to the design is that instead of handpress they are now machine press. The illustrations are now moving from woodcuts to metal plates. Another thing that is different, the books are printed in a variety of languages. Not just Latin.


Another 100+ years?
Pretty much the same.
Big difference is the paper that is being used.
By about 1850 paper stopped being made out of linen. They just plain ran out. And digging up grave to unwrap dead people was really a buzz kill.
Take a look at the Hippocra. Compare it to this medical book. Notice the spots and splotches on the 1859 book. Groundwood paper becomes very brittle and rusts easily. It doesn't help that Galveston is very humid.

100+ years later books are still in the same form as they were in 1500 years before. Form and function, people. Form and function. You just don't mess with a good thing. Because I appreciate the feel of a book in my hand is probably why I'll never get a Kindle or an iPad. Just like us, all books carry a little bit of their ancestry with them.


Quick Glossary
Handpress = a printing press that uses hand power to crank the typeset into the paper.
Woodcut = a block of wood that is carved to produce an illustration. Dipped in ink and applied to the paper.
Quatro = The paper on which the text is printed is folded 4 times.
Folio = The paper is folded in half. The only known Spakespeare works are printed and folded as folios.
Hippocra = The writings of Hippocrates, a physician that lived between 450 to 380 BC.
Manuscript = written by hand.

*shamelessly stole from a google image search. All others were taken by me at the UTMB library.

Okay, you can wake up now. No quiz at the end of this lecture. Aren't you lucky? You're welcome.

I hope you enjoyed something out of this long-winded rambling. Have a great weekend.

Love,
M

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

It's been 4 years and I'll never forget the sound

The Boy and I moved to Phoenix, Arizona in July of 2006. It was hot. When I say hot I mean mind frying blood boiling breath sucking hot. 118 degrees on the day that we rolled into town. 50 degrees hotter than the 2 days before when we left Seattle, Washington. As we heard ad nauseum "but it's a dry heat". Let me tell you from first hand experience, hot is hot. We were totally prepared. HA!

Like any bright people we went to the zoo on what had to be the second hottest day of the year. The first being the day we drove into town. Did we take water? Nope. Did we wear hats? Nope. Did we go really early in the day? Yep. Hey, one out of three is .....er....really bad. We didn't suffer heat stroke so that's a win.

Strange things happen to me when I go to the zoo. One time when my friend Sandy, our moms and I went to the Woodland Park Zoo in Seattle the monkeys decided that it was the perfect time for an orgy. There is nothing that embarrasses a teenage girl more then having her mom around when the monkeys decide to do the wild thing.

So The Boy and I went to the zoo.



We saw the monkeys.
They didn't do anything awkward.
I was happy.
We heard a strange loud high pitched grunting sound.
It wasn't coming from the monkeys.


We saw the macaws.
They were brightly colored.
We heard a strange loud high pitched grunting sound.
It wasn't coming from the macaws.




We went to the Savanna exhibit.
There were giraffes.
Giraffes are cool.
There were those little deer things.
There was that big horned cow thing.
We heard a strange loud high pitched grunting sound.
It wasn't coming from the giraffes, deer, or giant cow.




We saw the little turtles.
They were sunning themselves.
I don't think they worry about skin cancer.
We heard a strange loud high pitched grunting sound.
It wasn't coming from the cute little turtles.




We saw the giant turtles.
Um...er...
We heard a strange loud high pitched grunting sound.
It was coming from the giant male turtle on top of the other giant female turtle.
Doing the wild thing.
Doing the wild thing very loudly.
Loudly enough to be heard in every part of the zoo.



Funniest thing was the little boy asking his dad;
"Daddy, why is that turtle making that loud noise?"
The look on the dad's face was priceless.

I had flashbacks of that day at the Woodland Park zoo many many years before.
How would you have answered the little boy's question?

Love,
M




Monday, May 24, 2010

Meatless Monday - Child Obesity


I don't know if you've noticed but a lot of children in this country are overweight or maybe it is just here in Texas (5 cities in Texas made the top 10 fattest cities in the country. Pretty sorry statistic isn't it?). I don't know what is causing this trend (I have my suspicions) but as parents we have a responsibility to try our best to stop it. I suspect that a lot of the upward movement in children's weight has to do with the preponderance of processed foods and fast food but I could be wrong.

I was really lucky. Neither one of my boys have suffer a weight problem. This is probably due to the fact that:
1. We had no money for prepared foods. Everything we ate I made from scratch.
2. We had enough property to grow a large garden even if it meant digging up a good portion of the backyard or even the front yard. (Ask my mom, she had a very sunny front yard, we didn't. We dug up parts of her flower beds to put in a veggie garden for all of us. Tomato plants can be lovely when mixed with flowers that bugs don't like.)
3. Going to a fast food place was a luxury and a real sit down place was a once a year special occasion.
4. Washington State has very few buffets.
5. Meat of any kind was considered a luxury item. Since, we couldn't grow it we didn't eat much of it. When we did eat it it was in very small amounts. Sort of like Thomas Jefferson. Who said "meat is the sauce for my vegetables". Recipes that called for a pound of hamburger I used a half a pound or less. When I gave up meat for health reasons the whole family ate even less.


Cutting some of the meat from your and your child's diet doesn't have to mean less nutrition. There are plenty of vegetarian adults and children who are healthier and weigh less than meat eating children. Then again if not done right there are some fat vegetarians but on average they usually weigh less. I'm not going to preach about vegetarianism or tell you that if you are not a vegetarian you are evil (I'll leave that to PETA. They seem to have cornered the market on guilt and crazy with emphasis on crazy) what I will say is that prepared foods, fast food, and a diet that emphasizes meat as the main ingredient is just not very good for you.

My friend Candy (another librarian) and I have put together a bunch of articles and websites by sources that are NOT veg.org, Vegetarian Times, or (god forbid) PETA that might shed some light on nutrition, vegetarianism, and children's health. Visit one, some, none, or all of them to get informed about how cutting some, none or all of the meat from your and your child's diet.

Direct quotes are in italics.


Nutrition For Kids by: The Physicians Committee For Responsible Medicine
People who maintain a healthy weight throughout life stay well and live longer than those who are overweight. The lifestyle habits that help keep us slim—exercise and a healthy diet—also cut our risk of diabetes, heart disease, high blood pressure, and some cancers.

Guidelines for Proper Nutrition for Vegetarian Kids by: Sue Gilbert‚ M.S.‚ Nutritionist ON Jul 22, 1999

Read More http://www.ivillage.com/proper-nutrition-vegetarian-kids/6-128541#ixzz0oUxpKU4X


Kids Health from Nemours
Vegetarianism is a popular choice for many individuals and families. But parents may wonder if kids can safely follow a vegetarian diet and still get all necessary nutrients. Most dietary and medical experts agree that a well-planned vegetarian diet can actually be a very healthy way to eat.


Teen Vegetarians; Facts for Parents

The University of Maine Extension Service answers questions about whether teens will get enough nutrients, where to find protein sources, and how to help your teen eat healthy.


United States Department of Agriculture has a wonderful collection of links about vegetarian nutrition.

KeepKidsHealthy.com; a Pediatricians guide to your children's health and safety. Is another site that discusses health and vegetarian diets. Parents, especially if they are vegetarians, can feel reassured that they can safely raise their kids to be vegetarians too.

Vegetarian diets and childhood obesity prevention by Joan Sabaté and Michelle Wien American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, doi:10.3945/ajcn.2010.28701F
Vol. 91, No. 5, 1525S-1529S, May 2010

Epidemiologic studies indicate that vegetarian diets are associated with a lower body mass index (BMI) and a lower prevalence of obesity in adults and children. A meta-analysis of adult vegetarian diet studies estimated a reduced weight difference of 7.6 kg for men and 3.3 kg for women, which resulted in a 2-point lower BMI (in kg/m2). Similarly, compared with nonvegetarians, vegetarian children are leaner, and their BMI difference becomes greater during adolescence. Studies exploring the risk of overweight and food groups and dietary patterns indicate that a plant-based diet seems to be a sensible approach for the prevention of obesity in children.

I hope you found a bit of it informative. (Jan, I know that getting The Young One to eat anything resembling a vegetable might be an impossibility. Some kids are like that. He also, doesn't look like he's in trouble weight wise though)

What do you do that helps you and your child keep that pesky weight off?

I'll have a recipe next week. I know I've been negligent. All I can say is I've been on the road a lot. (excuses, excuses) I do have a pasta recipe that I had The Boy make while I was at work that the guys have been bugging me to make again. They do love their homemade pasta. Best of all....it is dead on easy!

Have a great Monday everyone,
Love,
M

Friday, May 21, 2010

Barbie has come down in the world

Found laying in the parking lot at work.
A mini Barbie
naked,
bagged,
and tagged.


She's come to a sad end.


Hoping your weekend is better,
M

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Chatting with Sherry - updated

About once a week Sher from It's Sherendipity and I chat online. Sometimes more. It all depends on how much we need to bitch. We have some wonderful conversations. Today, or well yesterday now, was no exception.

FYI, I've edited out the parts that consist of us complaining about our weight, our lack of funds, and our crazy families. I know that doesn't leave much but what is does leave is plenty amusing. Or at least I think it is but then I amuse easily.

me: without a doubt
1:55 PM had an interview today with a student worker that was just a tad awkward
he kept talking about the catalog of "adult toys" (his words) that he designed then he asked if we wanted to see one
1:56 PM Sher: HA!!
me: turns out it was a catalog full of bongs
Sher: lol
well, he just made the catalog, right?
1:57 PM me: as far as I could tell but before we got a chance to look at one he was going on and on about how he would have to call the clients to discuss the parts and pieces and how they all worked
1:58 PM it was hard not to laugh
Sher: i bet

We ended up hiring this student. He had the best skillset of the 3 that we interviewed and if he turns out as good as we think he will we hope he stays for awhile. Though we will have to have a little discussion about appropriate discussion topics. We are going to have to define what is an adult toy and what is drug paraphernalia.

No matter what JR thinks the student will need to leave his portfolio of catalogs at home.

Love,
M

P.S. Turns out that this student is not a he like we previously thought. Yep, just makes it that much more awkward.




Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Boyce Thompson State Park

On Wednesday we went to Boyce Thompson State Park.
It's more like an arboretum than a state park.
With paths and gardens and a lake and a couple of creeks.



Here's is my mom and I with the dogs next to the lake.
My mom is allergic to the sun. So she has too cover up head to toe when out in it.
Not me. A hat, sunblock, and sunglasses are my only concession to the sun.

Boyce Thompson park is located 60 miles east of Phoenix, it is at the base of the mountains.
As you can see after a 4 mile walk the dogs were tired and thirsty. I was too.
It was perfect sunglasses and hat weather.
Not too hot. Not too cold. It was just right.



For $7.50 per person it provided us all a nice walk and something inexpensive to do while The Boy was taking his last final. This is a park that we go back to over and over again. If you are ever in Phoenix and it's not too hot you really should try to get up to Boyce Thompson.



Let's all jump up and down for my new camera. Oh sure, JR might think he has some claim on it but we all know that it's mine. All mine. Mahahahaha.



These photos are straight out of the camera. Not too bad huh? My poor point & shoot Kodak was dying a long and lingering death. First the exposure was going which necessitated constant fiddling in Photoshop (not that I don't enjoy fiddling in photoshop but it was getting annoying. I, also, don't have any photo editing software on my netbook. Anyone know of a free photo editing software that is good?) Second, the place where the cable I used to transfer photographs to my computer pushed itself into the body of the camera. Thus causing me to have to take out the memory card which I would forget to put back which would mean that I couldn't transfer them. I could go on about my camera issues but you get the picture. 5 years for a digital camera seems to be my limit.



The wildflowers were blooming.


Some of the cactus were blooming, also.


I love the look of this trellised path. The dappled sunshine and the lovely flowers made it the perfect place to rest a'spell.
This photo and the trees above are my next painting.
They have been rattling around in my head every since I took them.
I saw some great paper at the art supply store that I think will make great tree trunks.

After all the walking we enjoyed a great lunch of veggies, hummus, cheese, nuts, chips and bread.


Have you got a park that you go back to time and time again?
Love,
M

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Random Tuesday Thoughts from our trip to Arizona

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Random Tuesday Thoughts.
The premise here is to post those of your thoughts that just don't make a complete post. That, of course, constitutes about 9/10ths of my thoughts making this easy for me.


I adore this building.
End of thought.





We took the dogs for another walk in the park in Tempe and look who was standing on the side of the lake. He was huge!


He let us come within a couple of feet of him before he flew off.

He could have been a she. I didn't check. So I'm using the pronoun he as a generic term.







JR and I weren't the only ones that got to visit friends and family on our trip. Nessa got to spend a little time with her sister, Izzy.


Izzy is the darker of the two. Her and Nessa met up for the first time in over a year and you wouldn't have known that they had been apart.

Doggie nose kisses.
Anything any cuter?
I don't think so.



I was due at a conference in Austin on Monday and Tuesday so we hightailed it over there. We drove from Lordsburg, New Mexico to Austin, Texas in one really, really long ass numbing day.


The next morning we took the dogs for a walk along the lake. Nessa liked the doggie drinking fountain.


The guys dropped in off at my hotel on Sunday afternoon.
Pretty nice huh?

This is the view of downtown Austin that Rachel and I will be enjoying until Tuesday afternoon. Then it is back to Houston for us.


That's it for me. Go visit the gang over at Keely's for more randomness.

Love,
M



Monday, May 17, 2010

He did it!!!!!

We are all smiles




Then this happened and I got a little sniffley.




By this point I was weeping just a little.
Not a lot. Just a tear or two.




At this point I was openly bawling.
(that's The Boy on the left. He chose to wear sandals and shorts.)




Back to all smiles again.


Love,
M

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Walking the Dogs in Tempe, Arizona

We took the dogs for a walk at on the urban lake parks.
This park is located on Baseline Road in Tempe, AZ


The weather is perfect. 80, sunny and dry.
So dry in fact that my poor heels have dried out and cracked.
Lack of moisture is not a problem in Houston.
Now, I'm sort of hobbling around.


The breeze was blowing the leaves and flowers on the trees
but it wasn't enough to make our walk unpleasant.
Just enough to make that air fresh and perfumed by the flowers.


It was so nice that the mama ducks decided to take their babies out.
Aren't they sweet?
Tripper usually likes to chase birds but
he ignored the baby ducks.



Today we will be heading to the Botanical Garden or Boyce Thompson state park.
My mom wants to see some cactus flowering.
I figure those are just the places to go for that.
I think we'll take the dogs and a picnic basket.


Love,
M


Tuesday, May 11, 2010

RTT - Conversations across Texas

Here are a few of the conversation JR and I have been having as we drive across Texas. You can tell that it is one of the most boring drives ever achieved by the Dogslife family with maybe the exception of our epic drive of 2004. When we drove from Seattle, Washington to Bloomington, Indiana across the wide open spaces of Nebraska. After arriving in Bloomington we shot off a quick letter to the Governor of Nebraska suggesting that whatever their state motto was it should be changed to "Nebraska, best seen at night".

Some things are just obvious….
JR ,upon seeing a sign for Sonora Caverns: There’s a cavern we haven’t seen yet.
Me: I’ve been underground enough for a person who isn’t dead.



I’m NOT my dad…
A little back story on this one, JR’s dad, Eddie, in the last years of his life, spent a lot of time trying to convince us that he couldn’t see. All his complaints started with; “God damnit I can’t see anymore. I need new glasses” (BTW, his glasses were new). The problem was that as he was telling us how bad his eyes were he would be reading and commenting on bumper stickers on the car two or three car lengths ahead of us. Bumper stickers that my late 20s eyes couldn’t read. This peculiarity of his has been a running joke in the family even 15 years after his death. I know we are a sick bunch.
Back to present day:
JR: That’s kind of an out of the way place to put a building. What does the sign say; Hill Country Grocery?
Me: I didn’t see it.
JR: Oh, it said Hill Country Raceway. God damnit I can’t see out of these glasses any more. I need a new pair.
Me: Heeheehee…..Eddie, What did that bumper sticker say?
JR: Hahaha..you think you are so damn funny. Don’t EVER say I’m like my dad.



It’s all in the planning
Central and West Texas have this quaint little road thang going. There will be a rest stop complete with bathrooms. About 90 miles later there will be a picnic stop with no bathrooms, then another 90 miles a rest stop/bathrooms, then 90 more miles another picnic stop/no bathrooms. You get the pattern. The 90 miles between stops is filled with low scrub bushes and snakes. There will be NO stopping to go behind a bush.
JR: I’m waiting to drink a coke until we are closer to Ft. Stockton.
Me: huh?
JR: I don’t want to have to go to the bathroom at the wrong stop.
Me: Yes, I can see where you would have to employ a beverage consumption strategy on this stretch of road.


If all goes well we will be in lovely downtown Tempe, Arizona by today. Sitting beside the pool drinking some sort of drink with an umbrella in it. Ya'll have a great day. Don't forget to visit Keely and all the other randomers.

Love,
M



Monday, May 10, 2010

1944 Good Housekeeping Cookbook - A Quiz

No Meatless Monday recipe for today because....

We're on the road again.
Just can't wait to get of the road again.

Like a band of gypsies we go down the highway
We're the best of friends.
Insisting that the world keep turning our way

Okay, I'll stop. I promise. (I must be channeling Willie again. I hate it when this happens. Next thing I know I'm wanting to grow my hair long, pick up a guitar, stop paying my taxes, and start smoking pot. Hmmmm....why does that not sound so bad.) But, we are on the road.

Since, I started this post on Friday I'm going to guess that we are somewhere near El Paso, TX. Not a real hot spot of beauty and culture but it could be worse. I'll have my iTouch filled with books on tape and my watercolors at the ready. Believe it or not I can paint in the car. Vehicle abstracts are wonderful. They just have a certain driving energy to them. (Hahahaha, driving energy, Get it? Driving? Energy? HA! I crack myself up)

I'm sure you are asking yourself; "self, if Michele isn't posting a recipe, what in the world will she do for Monday's food post." I've been asking myself that same question. Here's what I've come up with......a quiz. A food quiz.

A pop quiz!
Oh joy!

Don't get nervous because you didn't study for this quiz. This is just for fun. It's true or false so you have at least a 50/50 chance of getting the right answer. And, your score will go up considerably if you are up on your 1940s meal serving rules.

Grab your #2 pencil. Ready?

  1. When setting the table for a formal dinner party the table cloth should overhang the table by 10" to 14". True or False?
  2. Dinner napkins should be placed to the left of the forks so that the lower right hand corner is the open corner . True or False?
  3. At a formal dinner party candlesticks should be silver or crystal only with white candles. True or False?
  4. When designing a centerpiece for an informal dinner or luncheon the size and shape should be in relation and proportion to the table. It should be in a low bowl and be appropriately casual in nature, such as; flowers from your garden or fruits and vegetables of pleasing shapes and colors. This is the time to use your imagination and good taste. True or False.
  5. 18" is the correct distance between the centers of adjacent plates.
  6. When training your maid it is best if you provide written instructions, have practice sessions and making sure she is familiar with Setting the Table, Basic Rules for Serving, and Routine of Service. True or False?

Answers are provided below.


1. False. The answer is that the cloth should hang between 15 to 18 inches. Not 14". And definitely not 19" Do you think there was table cloth police in the 1940s? Do you think that terribly correct diners slyly measure the cloth then proceed to look down on you because yours was too short?

2. True. Obviously, the thought process here is that if the napkin is right next to the forks you would pick it up first then work your way in. A hint that maybe you wouldn't put your napkin in your lap if it wasn't handy. Talk about lowering the expectations.

3. True. Colors will not be tolerated. I believe that the table cloth police are also responsible for upholding the white candles only dictate.

4. True. I'm not exactly sure what you do if you don't have imagination and good taste. There are those of us with lots of imagination and really bad taste. Think of all the avocado kitchens in the 70s. What rates as appropriately casual and what is inappropriately casual when it comes to fruits and vegetables? Which fruit is the most formal?

5. False. 20" is the best distance be between centers of adjacent plates. You are bound to have that one guest who puts her elbows on the table and leans over far enough to get food on the front of her shirt. What? I can't be the only one.

6. True. According to my 1944 Good Housekeeping Cook Book it is imperative that a guest not be served last, that water glasses only be filled 3/4 full, that the finger bowls should be filled 2/3 full with lukewarm water, and that the maid never ever touch the guests. I don't even want to think about what kind of damage a poorly trained maid might do.


How did you do?


Love,
M

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Mother's Day

We are on our way to Arizona but I wanted to post something for Mother's Day. With all the things that need to happen in order to get two adults and two dogs out the door I didn't have time to write an original post. That is why you are getting a reprint.

I posted this back in 2008. Back when I had few readers. None of which was my mother. She still doesn't read my blog. Why doesn't my mom read my blog? She doesn't know how to find it on the internet. Even with the bookmark I put on her browser. Bless her heart.

To all you who are mothers, and your mothers, and your mothers-in-law, and your grandmothers..... Happy Mother's Day. May you spend it just the way you want.


Happy Mother's Day

Mother's day was officially declared by Woodrow Wilson in 1914. It is the only thing that I think he did that was right (at least when it came to women). Now, I'll step off that soap box to talk a little about my mother.

What is it about mothers and daughters? Some of us seem to have this crazy relationship. I'm pretty lucky in my relationship with my mom. We went from a mother/daughter relationship to a friend/friend relationship back when I was in my early 20's. I credit my mom with giving me a sense of the absurd.

The craziest things seemed to happen to my mom. My children were raised on tales of what Grandma did.
  • Danced on a bar in Cancun Mexico when she was about 68 years old.
  • Hiked 30 miles in New Zealand wearing a 25 pound backpack with her older sister. My mom was 61 and her sister was 71 years old. Did I mention that she had never done anything like this before. Or since mind you! This is the same trip that she was supposed to go bungy jumping but she wussed out. I can only applaud her for that decision!
  • Spent 3 months at a mission in Uganda without running water, power or phone. (I'm sure she missed the phone most of all). She was in her 60's.
  • She slipped getting out of the bathtub at a resort; ended up breaking her big toe and getting a staph infection.
  • One snowy day (when I was a kid) she was trying to put tire chains on the car, though she'd never done it before. She ended up wrapping the chains around the axle while driving home, all the while thinking that the chains were helping her out.
  • Lost her 5 year old grandson (my youngest boy) at a ski resort in Canada. BTW, he had a great time skiing with the female ski resort employee that he hooked up with (that's my boy!).
  • Took all her grandkids (at the same time) white water rafting when they were teenagers. This had to actually be the craziest thing ever!
My mom may be a little on the nutty side but I'd never want to change her.

She is the most loving, sweetest, kindest, and fun loving woman I know. We've all heard that as daughters age they get more like their mothers. If I can be half as interesting as my mom I'll be lucky (without the quirkiness Thank You).

One of the things I most remember about my mom is that she spent a week at my house just after my first baby was born. Did she tell me how to be a mom, nag me, boss anyone around NO! Not my mom, she spent the whole week cleaning my house, cooking (though we tend to discourage this behavior) running errands and basically being helpful. If for no other reason I'll love her for this.

So mom for all the things that you are or are not: THANK YOU!

Love,
M